- MONDAY, Feb. 8 (HealthDay News) — Something as simple as sitting down to dinner together as a family can go a long way in helping a child fend off obesity.
Family dinner
Kudos to Tribune reporter Barbara Mahany for “Reclaiming family dinner; A new year brings a call for the return of meal togetherness” (Good Eating, Jan. 6). After seeing the headline of her article, my usual morning rush of packing lunches, backpacks, the kids’ snow gear while getting them on the school bus was interrupted; I had the desire to read more on this topic. I’m glad I did! I was refreshed and enlightened to see that some of us do value and make family meals a priority.
I’ve been preaching for years about the importance of eating dinner as a family and the immeasurable benefits to the children, as well as to the marriage. Unfortunately “dinner time” has taken the back burner in many households, and the negative consequences of overloaded schedules and electronic distractions are blatant and, often, irreversible. I’m often appalled by the frequent fast-food, drive-through trips parents make and use as substitutes for real dinners many days a week. Too often I know of kids who eat alone, watch cable TV and text while eating, or have unhealthy snacks for dinner or don’t really eat dinner at all because they were “too busy.” Some even eat late-night junk food as a substitute for supper. Consequently poor table manners and disrespectful behavior from adolescents are often unnoticed because the parents themselves are doing the same thing or are too self-absorbed, distracted or exhausted to care. The children don’t know how to act at a “sit-down” dinner because it’s an infrequent event.
I’m a wife, mom and teacher, so I know the day-to-day challenges and demands of life and why kids act like they do today. However, I believe we need to change our mind-set and re-evaluate our priorities in this new decade ahead. I truly believe one solution to help strengthen family life and core values is to make dinner time and family meals the cornerstone of our daily lives again.
What a great environment to train our kids how to be polite, use manners, show respect, communicate, pray and, most important, appreciate each other and the abundance of the healthy good food we have in this country. Thank you for printing this article. I hope it hits home for many.
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/opinion/chi-0116vplettersbriefs1jan16,0,7274872.story
– S. Risop, Barrington






